Thursday, September 6, 2012


Unfortunately, school is back in session, the days are getting shorter, and I can no longer wear my favorite white pants.

Sunday, August 12, 2012


 hello and welcome to our tiny little drop in the online  ocean! i'm sharry, and i'm married to my best friend and  the coolest peacenik around, jared, (sharry + jared =  sharred). jared and i met in america's red rock country  over 10 years ago, and have been wandering through this  beautiful life together ever since.

 this is our minimalist lifestyle blog where i share our jobs  (as a nonprofit program coordinator [sharry] and a school  counselor [jared]), our adventures, our families, our art, and our lives. all of which is written and edited by  me: a cat obsessed, nature lover.

 we spend the majority of our weeks hanging out with  therapy puppies at the office, hiking the slc hills,  lounging in bed with our cat, lola, or watching episode  after episode of the wonder years and gilmore girls. we love celebrating  family, art, music, literature, travel, and the great  outdoors- and hope this blog will be a space to share our  joys with the ones we love. hope you enjoy!

 -love, sharred
(written by Shar, pre 6/16/16)

I [Jared] have embraced Sharry's lovesharred message and blog continuing it after she was lost in tragedy. On June 16th, 2016 two days after our baby's due date Sharry died during child birth in a freak catastrophe. I lost my soulmate, best friend, my everything. You can read all about what happened on that day here, or listen to a podcast here that featured our love story and loss.

I continue as a widow single father with a beautiful baby boy. I aim to live my life as a legacy to my lost love. Together JJ, Sharry (in spirit at least) and I will check off her bucket list, live lives that embody the BD 3E's, and do all that we can to bring greater light and love to this world. I choose to believe that we will be together again.

Feel free to read through our blog. Previous to June 2016 Sharry wrote of our love and adventures. From that point on you can read of Shar's legacy and my experience with loss and love.
-love, BD3

Monday, June 4, 2012

Saturday, April 28, 2012


^^^the most somber day of our trip.^^^

^^^until this day (jewish memorial, berlin)^^^

^^^remnants of the berlin wall^^^

^^^and finally, we stopped by some german castles before heading back to london^^^

Traveling on a shoestring through Europe was one of the best decisions we ever made. We saved all the money from having a cheap wedding and bought two tickets to England. Two, temporarily unemployed, college students with no specific plans, essentially no money, and an outdated travel guide... sounds like a cheesy Elizabeth Gilbert memoir.