tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1394475165530213404.post4058131626618001897..comments2023-10-26T00:46:29.149-07:00Comments on L O V E S H A R R E D: Letter to myself from myselfSharry, Jared, & Lolahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10118594092900889019noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1394475165530213404.post-73790746941165769652016-07-08T15:07:24.395-07:002016-07-08T15:07:24.395-07:00Jared, I have a feeling that one day you are going...Jared, I have a feeling that one day you are going to help many many people through this very situation you're going through right now. I am so very sorry for your loss. Reading your blogs I think how incredibly blessed you both were to have found each other. It sounds like you were truly each other's soul mates. My husband was raised by his dad and he is such a wonderful, thoughtful and incredible father. Ideally a child would have both of their parents, but I think you will always keep your wife's spirit alive for JJ. Praying for you! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10565486358267847437noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1394475165530213404.post-8774169940693308302016-07-08T10:17:18.814-07:002016-07-08T10:17:18.814-07:00That picture is beautiful!!! What a blessing that ...That picture is beautiful!!! What a blessing that you two loved each other so much. You are doing everything you're supposed to by mourning and grieving. JJ is lucky to have you and you to have him. There will be a new normal. Keep looking for the positives every day. They are there. Sharry would want that. The Scottshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06533780405167623819noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1394475165530213404.post-61644239744603239072016-07-08T10:06:42.688-07:002016-07-08T10:06:42.688-07:00While I cannot fully understand your situation (I ...While I cannot fully understand your situation (I can't imagine!!!), I do understand the blow that comes with hearing sad and negative things after having recently experienced a loss. It feels like the whole world is bleeding. Just two weeks after I lost my brother, I found out that my most beloved college professor had passed at the age of 45, leaving being two young boys and just feeling like I wanted to sit down, cry, and give up bc their was no hope or mercy or joy in this world. Keep pushing, Jared! You got this! Keep writing. Memories fade so quickly... write about your last day with her-- your last conversation--- keep writing about your feelings. It helps you but it also helps others like me. Thank you for this gift you're giving the world. ShaLyse Walkerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04319758759678839044noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1394475165530213404.post-35596939236347270032016-07-08T08:21:32.545-07:002016-07-08T08:21:32.545-07:00Jared, I agree with what you are saying about moth...Jared, I agree with what you are saying about mothers naturally being better at raising children, but kids are very adaptable. When my daughter was 9 months old, my wife worked about 3 days a week and I would stay at home to watch the baby. I found very quickly that I became better at calming my daughter down, and feeding her solids. You and JJ are growing a bond together that will continue to grow in time. You will know him better than anyone, and he will trust you more than you can imagine. Just one day at a time my friend.Tim T.https://www.blogger.com/profile/12580263695553441874noreply@blogger.com